Related Stories. Then, she says, take it to the next level and experiment with objects like ice, feathers, melted wax, and coconut oil.
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There comes in a time in any relationship, regardless of how happy you both arethat the sex component can take a dip —whether it's hormonal, stress-related, or you've just been with the same partner for so long that no amount of pillow talk or date nights will make you want to get intimate. First things first: make a commitment to yourself and your partner that you will not judge your bodies or the faces you make in the throes of passion. Shop Lubricant Switch locations.
Advertisement - Continue Reading Below. But when things get a bit monotonous in the boudoir, it is possible to spice things up.
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Try a couples' vibrator. Shop Pillow Touch yourself. Morris agrees, and recommends Tantric sex—a meditative practice.
Even prepping for it may make you hot with anticipation. This content is created and maintained by a third party, and imported onto this to help users provide their addresses. You may find that connecting early in the evening puts a whole new spin on the rest of the night.
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Type keyword s to search. With your partner! We put together a list of expert—and reader-approved—sex tips that people say have helped them spice things up. You may be able to find the same content in another format, or you may be able to find more information, at their web site. Don't underestimate the power of lubricant.
The angle helps with deeper penetration.
Get it on in the hallway. Send a provocative text.
Feeling tired, full, and bloated is an intimacy killer. So instead of waiting until the end of the night to have sex, Morris says to get busy before going out. Shop Lubricant.
Have a faux affair. (with your partner!)
Test new positions. You may be able to find more information about this and similar content at piano. Start by ordering a Tantric book. And you may even want more of each other after dessert. Lanae St. The messy chaos of everyday life is anything but a turn-on…but a tidy hotel room with a nicely made bed, a Do Not Disturband room service?
Another good resource is the World Association of Sex Coaches. Your Best Life.
Keep your clothes on. seriously.
Juliana Morris suggests leaving something on—from a fierce pair of heels to a sweet string of pearls—getting almost naked can bring out your sexy side. Then, set up a full-length mirror by your bed, or position yourself in front of a bathroom or closet mirror. See what happens when you take turns reading erotic literature to each other. Adding a sex toy to the mix is kind of like adding a third party, but without the emotional attachment.
Keep your clothes on. Shop our couples sex toy recs Brainstorm a list of fantasies.
John is a member of both. Sexting is a fun, playful way to let your partner know they are on your mind.
2. be ready in case his wife confronts you
Not sure how? Take a tennis lesson, try a new restaurant, go on a hike together. Shop our couples sex toy recs. Not only is making a list together fun, simply talking about desires can keep things hot. As Nelly says, "It's gettin' hot in herre, so take off all your clothes According to tip one!
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1. keep it on the down low
Sometimes keeping passion alive in the bedroom has nothing to do with sex at all. Use your imagination!
These vibrators for beginners can get you started. Have fun together!
Men, try going commando, and just unzip your jeans! Just opening the package with your partner can feel exciting. Flowers are sweet—but how about sending something a little more…raunchy?